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Good Girls Talk About Sex

Dec 23, 2021

Whether it’s secretly watching our parents’ porn or uninformative Sex Ed, most of us get inadequate information about sex.

Liz learned to pleasure herself early on, then followed her instincts about who to kiss and when to have sex for the first time. The same inner compass led her to leave two marriages...


Dec 9, 2021

Is it normal to want dating without hook-ups? And what if you don’t even know who you want to date?

When you’re on the asexual spectrum with bisexual attractions, it can be confusing to chart desire and create a relationship that works for you. Alice from South Africa talks about having very little sex education and...


Nov 24, 2021

How do you know you’re queer if you don’t even know that’s an option? It’s hard to imagine what we can’t see.

Julia takes us through confusing early fantasies to landing that first girl-kiss to realizing what it means to love people with vaginas in all their gender presentations. Now she wants to...


Nov 11, 2021

What happens when a girl grows up in purity culture and gets married to the first boy who pays attention to her, just so she can have sex? Is purity culture religious abuse?

In this episode we hear that story from Gabby. She is a 34-year-old cisgender female. She describes herself as white, straight but open to...


Oct 28, 2021

Joy talks about taboo territory like incest porn, being HSV-2 positive, and trying out “water sports.” She has early memories of non-consensual experiences, which led to weak boundaries and a tendency towards dissociation and passivity. A hysterectomy and genital changes further changed her body and libido. She’s...