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Good Girls Talk About Sex

Mar 7, 2019

In this episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, we talk with Yaz, a 30-year-old who describes herself as half-Persian/half-European, polyamorous, and single.

I wanted to interview Yaz because I recently saw her describe herself this way: “My assets include diversity (I am genderqueer, pansexual, a person of color, fat, and make under $30,000/year), a playful attitude (I am really a kid in an adult body), and a know-how of holding space for those whose voices get lost in the shuffle.”

Here are some of the great moments we shared with Yaz:

  • 6:24 – Discovering the delights of the shower and bathtub faucet
  • 9:18 – Discovering porn and movie sex scenes
  • 15:14 – Yaz defines gender queer, pansexual, and gender non-conforming as she experiences them
  • 17:15 – How being fat has affected her experience of sexuality
  • 26:18 – Her first experience of penetrative sex … and what happened when she realized she wasn’t ready
  • 31:20 – The STARS talk (as featured in Episode 8a)
  • 38:45 – Is it still non-consensual if we don’t say “no?”
  • 40:55 – What Yaz looks for in a potential partner
  • 41:35 - THE QUICK FIVE

Mentioned in this episode:

  • Sex Positive Portland – Where Yaz and I met, that provides education on sex positive topics as well as organized events in the Portland, Oregon, area
  • Sex Positive World – The parent organization for Sex Positive Portland, with chapters around the world
  • The STARS talk - an easy to remember acronym that will help you begin conversations leading to great, consensual sex. We did an entire episode on it and you can listen here!


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Host – Leah Carey (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email)

Editor – Gretchen Kilby

Music by – Nazar Rybak